Category: freelance writing

  • How to Spot a Recruiter Scam

    Has a “recruiter scammed you”? The first time it happened to me, it took me a few shakes of the head to realize and spot the recruiter scam in the nick of time.

    Luckily, I wisened up after the first event, and I’m here to share my tips for spotting a recruiter scam before you send your bank information to their nonexistent HR department.

    Now, not all recruiters are robots enlisted to scam you. But in this tight job market, we may unwittingly fall prey to scammers scouting the internet for information they can use against us.

    Six red flags that may indicate a recruiter scam

    #1 The initial exchange comes out of the blue

    Hello, you’ve won the lottery. All you have to do is…Just kidding. Whenever I get an email from a company I can’t remember applying to (and I keep a file to double-check my memory), I think, “Hmm, maybe this is a recruiter scam.”

    Also, the bot will often say “hi, hello, or dear” without using your full name. See how the initial email was so impersonal? The person said “Hi”, not “Hi Rana”.

    #2 And the line about scheduling the interview?

    Even if you can bypass that with curiosity, you could wonder why I must email them back to access the calendar. Hmm. It seems unprofessional. What do you think? I think it is a fishing expedition to see if you reply. And you may, so read on.

    #3 Not super professional on any level

    It IS curious that I have to email them when I can’t even remember who the firm is. Doubt lurks in my mind like a mugger following you to your car. If you’re in doubt, it may mean you have had way more professional teams and HR people reach out to you. You’re comparing those experiences with the current sketchy one, thinking “not very professional, would I enjoy working for that company in the first place?”

    #4 Suspicious format, font, and pre-job briefing

    I’ve been in marketing for over 10 years and have never heard of a pre-job briefing. Interview preparation materials – yes. Also, the font looked different. And why did Lily not have a signature? Even contractors typically take on a domain signature. So many little weird things in a normally civilized email with a consistent font and format.

    #5 Verify before trust

    Assuming you aren’t convinced. Or, you researched the company and await their email team to respond to your inquiry. Because yes, you do have to reach out by phone, over LinkedIn, or through the company’s contact portal to see if this is a legitimate interview offer.

    On the last PDF page of the so-called Job Briefing Guide, there is a big red flag If you run into difficulties setting up Teams. You wouldn’t omit the period and capitalize the “I”. This kind of typo should alert you. Also, HR people send Teams links from verified platforms. You shouldn’t be typing in a person’s name. See #6 for more.

    #6 Over the edge red flag

    Hiring managers would take the domain name of the company they work for. I’d like to point out how this scammer had an Outlook account. And what does that code mean?

    I suspected this was a scam because it is the second of its kind to land in my inbox. I’ve received them by phone, but those are different. This type sends collateral to lure you in and when you’re looking for a job you might be tempted to follow every lead.

    Don’t be weak, the right opportunity will present itself. Follow up, check it out, believe in you. Otherwise, you are part of a growing number of already having a hard time earning a living folks who’ve just given out some very private information. Established companies with legit HR departments send you correspondence through a portal, typically.

    Here’s what AI has to say about recruiter scams:

    Yes, recruiter scams are happening and are on the rise. Scammers increasingly target job seekers online, often impersonating legitimate recruiters or companies to gain personal or financial information. These scams can take various forms, including fake job offers, requests for upfront payments, and phishing attempts. 

  • Reading recommendations

    Book 1: On Brand, Aliza Licht.

    About branding, image, style, and basic good business practices.

    I like to keep learning and am currently reading On Brand by Aliza Licht. She shares her insights about coming across with a consistent and clear brand voice. It inspired me to clean up my website and LinkedIn profile ASAP, if just to keep it fresh and cohesive. The only thing that is good stale is Challah. It makes great breadcrumbs and french toast.

    It’s always wise to refresh your content. Check in to see what is useful, outdated, or classically awesome.

    Book 2: Zahav: A World of Israeli Cooking, by Michael Solomonov.

    About recipes, some from the restaurant Zahav located in Philadelphia.

    My husband, while not Jewish, enjoys Friday night dinner, Shabbat. Challah is one of the Ashkenazi Jewish traditions. Known for its braided shape, the bread has simple ingredients: eggs, white flower, water, yeast, sugar and salt. The word “challah” in Hebrew means ‘type of loaf or cake’ and one that is spacious or airy). Next time mine will be more airy, but it was still delicious – one of the recipes from Zahav cookbook that I’m constantly using.

    Book 3: The Source, by Dr. Tara Swart.

    About neuroscience and laws of attraction.

    The third book I am reading is The Source: The Secrets of the Universe, the Science of the Brain. It was recommended by a new friend who came into my life recently. The book was written by Dr. Tara Swart, and promises to have some interesting reflections. In the very first paragraph, Dr. Swart draws me in with,

    Life-changing opportunities pass us by every day.

    Book recommendations by Rana

    Book four: Bodies and Souls, by Isabel Vincent.

    About Jewish women forced into prostitution in the second half of the 19th century.

    My mother gave me this book in paperback and it is one I’m slowly getting through. It isn’t so much a slow read as tough subject: the tragic plight of three Jewish women forced into prostitution in the Americas. This is the first book by Isabel Vincent that I’m reading and it checks the box of “learning something new”. I’m certain a (true) story with words and phrases like “heart-wrenching sobs”, “white slavery”, and “pit of the stomach” will be memorable.

    Bye for now!

  • Support: A 360 Look

    Support: A 360 Look

    Today’s lesson, borrowed from puppy class is all about support. What does the word conjure up for you and why? A wooden beam, a hug, someone who listens to you, helps with the laundry, lends you money, doesn’t judge – there are no wrong answers.

    The word support lends itself for many meanings. You could feel supported emotionally, physically, mentally, at work, rest, or play. In my humble view, support is a chameleon that changes color depending on the situation.

    How do you feel when supported? I feel validated and more relaxed in some way. Like sleeping in a comfy bed and being able to let go. When supported at work, I also feel creative and productive.

    Support 101

    My Chief Compassion Officer Shows Support

    Yesterday’s class was about setting aside a safe place for Koda where she knows to stay and chill. Dylan used a raised platform with treats, getting each dog to go up, stay up, and come when called. The biggest dog, Chase (a super cutie) was the most timid and was too afraid.

    Koda of course, acted like the Chief Compassion Officer (CCO) she is. She bogarted the lesson with Chase by hopping up and waiting for him. He became less afraid and started to go up on his own, sitting by her and naturally, getting lots of Koda kisses.

    Chief Compassion Officer reporting for duty.

    Her supportive move was a very sensitive one and it got me thinking. Support can be very selfless and powerful. It is also a skill that we can learn to master. Cheers as we learn together.

    Support sometimes means just being there…

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  • The Art of the Thank You: Grati-dood

    Koda is teaching me a lot about gratitude and the art of the thank you. Even though she can’t speak human, her idea of saying thank you is usually to lick an eye, ear, hand or calf.

    There’s a sweetness to doing something that makes your puppy happy. It truly makes me feel good to receive her grateful affection. I know also when she growls at me that she’s pissed off, so trust me, the dood can communicate.

    Expressing gratitude

    Thank you For…

    I recently did two nice deeds for different humans who I barely know and did not receive a TY, thank you, thanks or #muchappreciated. This got me thinking about the words and why they matter to me.

    In my own upbringing, my mother always insisted on a thank you call and or thank you note. “I’m calling to say thank you for” or, “thanks so much for your thoughtful…”. The idea of thanking for a gift, gesture or good wish was intrinsic. Yet even the simplest words could express this. The lack of a thank you was bad manners and let’s just say, Mom did not go for this attitude at all.

    I don’t do kind deeds to get a thank you in return, don’t get me wrong. My operating system runs on friendliness and the hope of attracting positive, supportive energy and then, to pay it forward. Manners are also behaviors I’ve learned, and I know not everyone has this type of input.

    On paying forward, today I asked someone in Center City if she could pull up so I could park behind her. She did, and I thanked her so much.

    After my brief errand, I got the chance to say thanks again. We exchanged stories about men, big cars, small parking spaces and both smiled. I took this encounter as a reward. In my mind, this young lady did me a HUGE service and I wanted her to know. I also wanted the Universe to know that none of this went unnoticed.

    On exchanging smiles. A smile conveys lots of things, including gratitude. The effect of smiling on the body is a release of endorphins which counter act stress. The smile/thankyou combo is like a big yummy sandwich that is filling and has ingredients that drip down your cheek.

    A smile conveys gratitude and happiness

    How Gratitude Helps

    Moments like the ones I’m referring to don’t change anything per se. But they do add meaning to nurture my heart and soul. It’s the same kind of healing I get by giving the pup a belly rub and having her lick my face for five minutes afterword.

    These experiences help me manage stress as well. The gratitude behind a thank you in any form also nurtures my health and wellbeing. As a result, I’d go as far as saying that learning the art of the thank you invites joy. Try it for yourself and let us know.

    Need a dose of happy? Follow @KodaHazWax

     

     

  • Work Life Balance When You WFH

    Practice interuptus

    Finding a work life balance when you WFH can be a stretch. The computer is always right there and on. The puppy, the dishes, laundry, and yesterday’s grocery order tug at your heels like a puppy. I’ve heard many women talk about the kids and the challenges of Zoom school too. I don’t have that experience, but I can empathize.

    I work from home since I began my professional writing career. In other words, COVID didn’t put me here. Things changed with it though. My husband who is in a corporate role started to work from home. Then my food budget went up as gas bills when down.

    I actually let those changes in and was able to adapt. For one, I really used to worry about my husband commuting 1.5 hours at 7 P.M. It seemed inhuman. And for another, it’s a pandemic and that’s that. Wishful thinking does nothing useful. 

    All said, I’ve realized even more lately that balance while working from home is in constant flux. 

    What is your idea of a work life balance (WLB)?

    My sense of work life balance is that it is an organic process. I feel like I need to touch base with myself every day to figure out what actions I can take to be in sync this day, this moment.

    It has showed me that balance is a mix. Partly of what you have, how content you are with it, and how much you can go with the flow.

    I am fortunate to have three floors and a basement. The second floor we each have an office. So space wise I can’t complain. That said, there are challenges that add to the mix and try to tip the scales. 

    The way I get to a more equal version of myself is holistic. My mind, body and spirit need to sync up. I do this through meditation, yoga and writing. I have a daily practice of all three. Though writing for clients takes precedence over my own blog.

    Do you breathe during the day?

    I do. It’s the one thing I really need. Doesn’t mean it is easy. Let me tell you in the next blog about Koda. For now I will tell you that I’ve moved my desk into the bedroom, I’m puppy training with a pee pad in my master bathroom and her poo poo is stinky so deep breathing is a bit iffy at certain times.

    My art meets life –> Breathe

    Why work life balance is important even if it’s a distant goal?

    That said, and given we all hav our circumstances and attitude, can we agree we still need an action plan to fuel the positivity? Especially when added to the pressures of working from home and its extras.

    I’m not sure if this is hard for you. Whether you think work life balance is important but not (always) possible. I can only do what my years of yoga teaching taught me and that is:

    -Use your challenges as a teacher

    -Self reflect

    -Practice

    -Have no expectations but set a goal

    -Prepare for the next step

    -Honor where you are

    My Latest Steps to Getting More Work Life Balance

    Does waking up count? Ha. Ok here are a few things I do to bring more equipoise to a work from home lifestyle.

    #1 Lighten the mood with candles at the end of the day.

    Lighten the mood with candles

    #2 Meditate for a few seconds at the end of the work day to clear my head.

    I created the Yoga Mind CD if you would like to try it.

    #3 I read something inspirational so I can keep learning and thinking with a different part of my mind.

    Clear is kind

    My latest fav expression is “Clear is kind”. It’s from Brene Brown’s book, Dare to Lead.

    #4 Follow the clear is kind mantra in my life as much as possible to be a better communicator and listener.

    Colored pens and a diary are something that keep me organized at work. They help me keep track of goals, ideas, gold star or review moments.

    #5 Branch out to do more things I love on the weekends. Cook, garden, walk in nature, binge a series.

    Branch out

    #6 Make healthy food. I cannot get enough lemon water and my latest yumm – the Waxman Waldorf.

    Crunch out with celery salad.
    Play soothing sounds. This one is Chanting Om Music for Deep Meditation

    Thanks for reading,

    Rana

  • Working From Home – Top Tips to Try ASAP

    Hi peeps, for those who know me, working from home is nothing new. I’ve been doing this full time for many years. That said, hubs is now also WFH (not to be confused with WTF ?) and he’s full time too.

    All said, this means I need a new tactical plan. As he has a Philly boy booming voice and I require SILENCE.. Oh well. So I thought I would share some tips that I use to make my work from home life productive.

    Tribute to Female Entrepreneurs Working from Home
    Tribute to Female Entrepreneurs Working from Home

    Set boundaries

    I love the news and staying current with family events. But constant updates when I’m trying to form a sentence, not so much. So I had to go into lock down mode. Seriously, I started to lock my office door because LOCK = Knock. Also, I used a sweet voice and said “I’d love to listen with my full attention…after my work day.”

    If any of this is helpful, great. If not, the point is to find places where your working from home day is seeping energy. Then, create firm boundaries that respect your privacy, two foot bubble and work day.

    Hydrate

    For me the word ‘hydrate’ has many meanings. On one hand, I have to remind myself to drink water, as maybe you do. And on the other, I think of staying fluid. We are living in challenging times and I think, have to go with the flow a bit.

    So instead of missing things, my mind is allowing every day to be unique. I’m also moisturizing if you truly want to know because my hands are getting dry from all the washing.

    Dress for success

    Ok, this is one you might fight me on and if so, let’s agree to disagree. My preference is to shower, get dressed and yes, put on lipstick and greet the work day. I don’t necessarily dress up but clothes are clean and I never thought of working from home as an excuse to stay in pjs.

    Hubs has teased me on this point and thinks its ridiculoso when he sees me in a silk blouse. Listen, right now the dry cleaners is closed so I’m in washables, but I feel better and focused when I dress for the day. That always means being comfortable and putting an effort into staying professional. Your call on how to do this in your world.

    Mission control

    I just got a second monitor and good ear phones and it has made a lot of difference. Don’t know why I didn’t do this before, but now with new contracts, seems like a smart plan.

    You don’t have to go full tech all the way as maybe offices will be back open soon. Maybe not.. My point is that in choosing to make a real home office, I’ve made the space into one. Maybe there is something you can do to create a productive work environment too.

    Add zen

    I don’t usually light a candle during the day, but I was jonesing for some aromatherapy. Lit my lavender candle and it actually made me feel more creative. Most likely I had that on the “it’s not for the work day” list.

    In fact, working from home can be very stressful. Some days I forget to eat, or even stand up for hours. Not good. I think taking a moment to breathe, walk, and add some zen is a side benefit of being at home, safe. So stay calm with your own tricks and work on.

  • Living local – Weekend of Walking


    This was a weekend of walking in Philly. We went to Wissahickon and Manyunk.

    They remind me of my old neighborhood in Montreal. Living in an urban part of Philadelphia now, I felt like I was in the countryside. A lovely treat.

    Walking always connects and attunes me to a happy place. So, it is no surprise I miss my walks in Montreal.

    But as you may notice I have a philosophy of living local. And, this means exploring options for joy in my community.

    We did not head out planning a photo op of fall foliage. But this year FYI the foliage is noticeably absent.

    The trees, it seems, have weathered such shifts in temperature. It looks as if this made the leaves fall off rather than change color.

    But still majestic, Mother N radiates her transcendent nonverbal beauty. Says Waldo Emerson, “Nature is a discipline of the understanding in intellectual truth.”

    For me, walking is a a great way to rebalance and get in touch with my creativity. I encourage you to find some peace today wherever your #livelocal is.

    Rana

  • Living Local: I’ve Got a Guy

    In Montreal we kiss on both cheeks and say bonjour-hi. In Philly everyone says “I’ve got a guy” or “I’ve got a girl”, “my guy over at…”

    I think pretty much everyone has a person they go to for something. It’s another neighborhood-centric flavor of Philly.

    It Montréal I had that too but was more apt to call them by name or description (hairdresser, butcher etc).

    I like when I frequent a place to establish a respectful relationship. Especially if I meet someone honest, service minded. This motivates loyalty. Loyalty is great for brand building. It’s also a really desirable quality in a friend.

    One day I got a package from the CEO of Rag and Bone. He sent me a box of their perfumes. I spray them in the air and let the smell cascade on me. Heavenly in most cases.

    At any rate, the next time I passed the store, I went into see my guy Scot. I saw his fingerprints on the gift. True enough the sales staff was asked to submit their favorite client and Scot chose me.

    I asked why and he said he likes when I come in. I sometimes go in to say hi, and not always to shop, just look and feel (the clothes).We have a brief hug and catch up, then get to business.

    But I am loyal to him and all the sales staff know it. It’s a trusted interaction which is a good kind to have on all levels – personal and professional. Yes, I sometimes hear about upcoming sales too. Win win.

    As you know, I’m big on living local.

    Rana
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  • Live Local Morning Walk in Manayunk

    If you want to live local you try to find interesting things to do without necessarily spending a lot. Walking is one simple pleasure. I wanted to forest bathe and on a budget we planned to go to Wissahickon.

    Instead we stretched our legs with a morning walk in Manayunk. Hubs grew up in Roxborough but hadn’t been to the Towpath in awhile. Reminds me a bit of the Lachine Canal in Montreal.

    Has some lovely views and easy to walk on though not the widest trail I’ve been on.

    Saw 7 turtles which was a first for both of us. On way home we got some hugs in with hubs’ family and picked out a cafe we want to check out next time.

    Hit the spot in terms of getting away and living local. Enjoy

    Rana

  • #livelocal morning walk in the hood


    Live local…morning walk

    Friday morning AKA trash day is probably not the day to take a morning walk through Fishtown, but I do it anyway.

    If you’re a walker – I am – there’s definitely an obstacle course feeling going on. We ended up going towards Sugar House Casino. The Penn Treaty Park area is a well kept secret.

    Not anymore ha ha. Oh well.

    You get a view of the Ben Franklin Bridge and if you pretend you aren’t facing Camden and just look at the sun dazzled water and ducks it transports.

    On the return home you get a clear as day view of the Philadelphia skyline. That’s the picture up above.

    The walk back also includes a coffee with hubs and today we hit Frankford ave. Stay tuned for the deets and live local

    Rana