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  • Generation Covid-19 Puppy: Me and the Dood

    Generation Covid-19 Puppy: Me and the Dood

    Koda is from the COVID-19 puppy generation. Like baby boomers and GEN X,Y,Z, there are definitely COVID-19 puppies. Whether it was the actual lockdown experience in Philadelphia or a chain of events during the pandemic that nurtured her purchase, I’m not entirely sure.

    Koda at 10 weeks

    During the pandemic, my sister-in-law got a beautiful dog named Maisy. Once we were able to travel (that was scary, even with a mask), we visited them to meet our furry niece. She licked Josepf’s ear (that’s the hubs) and melted our hearts.

    Maisy and Uncle Popsicle

    When we got home, J started to reminisce about his Labrador Retrievers and how he trained them. The thought of a big dog, their shedding, my allergies, and full-time career didn’t make me feel that warm and fuzz

    However, I started to send him cute puppy pics on Instagram thinking it would be a pathetic substitute. Well, no. He told me he felt hurt because he really, really, really, wants a dog. Hmm, would I have to compromise?

    At that point, with offices closed, J didn’t have the 1.5-hour times 2 commute. He was home more although we both worked longer hours. So, I thought, well ok, let me see.

    The Decision: Do I Get a Generation Covid-19 Puppy?

    It seemed like everyone on my row had a Generation Covid-29 puppy. But I am my own person, not a follower of trends. That said, my marriage was calling and I had to answer.

    I suggested a very small breed that wouldn’t set off my allergies. That had a gentle and loving DNA. And was smart slash trainable.

    J did not believe me, so he insisted I go on the ‘net and make him a list of 10 dogs I would want.  I said, ok, and we researched to narrow down potential breeds first.  In the end, I found a lot more than 10 possible puppies.

    Whittling the list down, we found an Amish breeder in Lancaster, PA.

    Sold

    It was important, J said, to meet the puppy first. So, we did. We drove down and met Koda, then what, 3 pounds? She was tied to the hip with their eldest daughter, which I thought a reflection on loyalty and a loving temperament.

    When she trounced over her litter mates, I knew she had a playful and independent side too.

    We brought Koda home mid-December 2020. I’ve heard a lot of people say they couldn’t socialize their dog during COVID, but that is not my case.

    I bought a sling that I could carry her around in and exposed her to the sounds of sirens, the L, construction. She sniffed other dogs, the air and snow, made friends of all sizes, ages and cultures. Oh, and she went to school.

    Happy graduation day!

    Life with pup: Us and the Dood

    We both find it very grounding and special to have dog kisses during the day. I’ll sometimes ask J if he needs a puppy break to alleviate some stress. He loves it, getting to laugh at various points in his corporate da

    Now 16.2 pounds, this rambunctious, adorable, and delicious little doggie sleeps under my desk at my feet. She reminds me there is softness in the midst of trying times and if you find that, you are very lucky.

    Hats off to the dog parents of Covid-19 puppies!

    Are you the dog mom or dad of a Generation Covid-19 Puppy? Follow us @KodaHazWax to keep in touch. We love to #livelocal and are happy to share dog tips or learn new tricks.

    Living local with the pup

  • Work Life Balance When You WFH

    Practice interuptus

    Finding a work life balance when you WFH can be a stretch. The computer is always right there and on. The puppy, the dishes, laundry, and yesterday’s grocery order tug at your heels like a puppy. I’ve heard many women talk about the kids and the challenges of Zoom school too. I don’t have that experience, but I can empathize.

    I work from home since I began my professional writing career. In other words, COVID didn’t put me here. Things changed with it though. My husband who is in a corporate role started to work from home. Then my food budget went up as gas bills when down.

    I actually let those changes in and was able to adapt. For one, I really used to worry about my husband commuting 1.5 hours at 7 P.M. It seemed inhuman. And for another, it’s a pandemic and that’s that. Wishful thinking does nothing useful. 

    All said, I’ve realized even more lately that balance while working from home is in constant flux. 

    What is your idea of a work life balance (WLB)?

    My sense of work life balance is that it is an organic process. I feel like I need to touch base with myself every day to figure out what actions I can take to be in sync this day, this moment.

    It has showed me that balance is a mix. Partly of what you have, how content you are with it, and how much you can go with the flow.

    I am fortunate to have three floors and a basement. The second floor we each have an office. So space wise I can’t complain. That said, there are challenges that add to the mix and try to tip the scales. 

    The way I get to a more equal version of myself is holistic. My mind, body and spirit need to sync up. I do this through meditation, yoga and writing. I have a daily practice of all three. Though writing for clients takes precedence over my own blog.

    Do you breathe during the day?

    I do. It’s the one thing I really need. Doesn’t mean it is easy. Let me tell you in the next blog about Koda. For now I will tell you that I’ve moved my desk into the bedroom, I’m puppy training with a pee pad in my master bathroom and her poo poo is stinky so deep breathing is a bit iffy at certain times.

    My art meets life –> Breathe

    Why work life balance is important even if it’s a distant goal?

    That said, and given we all hav our circumstances and attitude, can we agree we still need an action plan to fuel the positivity? Especially when added to the pressures of working from home and its extras.

    I’m not sure if this is hard for you. Whether you think work life balance is important but not (always) possible. I can only do what my years of yoga teaching taught me and that is:

    -Use your challenges as a teacher

    -Self reflect

    -Practice

    -Have no expectations but set a goal

    -Prepare for the next step

    -Honor where you are

    My Latest Steps to Getting More Work Life Balance

    Does waking up count? Ha. Ok here are a few things I do to bring more equipoise to a work from home lifestyle.

    #1 Lighten the mood with candles at the end of the day.

    Lighten the mood with candles

    #2 Meditate for a few seconds at the end of the work day to clear my head.

    I created the Yoga Mind CD if you would like to try it.

    #3 I read something inspirational so I can keep learning and thinking with a different part of my mind.

    Clear is kind

    My latest fav expression is “Clear is kind”. It’s from Brene Brown’s book, Dare to Lead.

    #4 Follow the clear is kind mantra in my life as much as possible to be a better communicator and listener.

    Colored pens and a diary are something that keep me organized at work. They help me keep track of goals, ideas, gold star or review moments.

    #5 Branch out to do more things I love on the weekends. Cook, garden, walk in nature, binge a series.

    Branch out

    #6 Make healthy food. I cannot get enough lemon water and my latest yumm – the Waxman Waldorf.

    Crunch out with celery salad.
    Play soothing sounds. This one is Chanting Om Music for Deep Meditation

    Thanks for reading,

    Rana